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  • in reply to: Mr Wayne Rooney..and the FA #63134
    Fully agree on parental responsibility. You can’t delegate that to anyone else, but using your logic there would be no role models. No chooses to be, or gets paid for being, a role model. You get chosen by others as their role model and kids may not be that discerning. So, I maintain that if you benefit from your public image and fame then you carry some responsibility and should be accountable for your behaviours. Just as you argue that parents should hold their children accountable and bring them in line if they misbehave, so we/ the media/ the FA should hold Rooney accountable.

    Can’t see that schools serving crap up for kids to eat and then parents doing the same at home really serves any argument for ‘role modelling’.

    Your original post was that this behaviour wasn’t against the rules of entry to football stadia when clearly it is. And yes I’ve said plenty to others and those who spend 90 minutes moaning at everything too. Never had to report them, but I would if I was so moved. Thing is, my fellow supporters aren’t deemed role models, so if I choose to go to a game I accept it’s part of the experience and the risk my son will experience it. He has heard it all, but knows it’s wrong and knows how he is expected to behave.

    My original post did not say that his behaviour wasn’t against the rules of entry to a football stadia. My original post was arguing against the “he’s a role model & should set an example”.
    My second post (I think) mentioned the rules of entry to a stadium but did not say Rooney swearing wasn’t against those rules. I said I hope that none of those having a go at Rooney about what he did last Saturday use foul & abusive language in a football stadium coz that is as much against the rules of entry to a ground as Rooney’s language after scoring was against the laws of football – meaning that they were both against the rules/laws but it happens all the time & nowt is done about it

    The reason I used the school meals in one of my posts was that I remember watching Jamie’s School Meals once (can’t stand the man but I work on the estates side of schools including school meals so it was job research!!) & he had parents in being interviewed screaming blue murder about the rubbish the school was serving. In a separate room he had their children & he asked what they’d had for tea last night & every single one of them had eaten some form of junk/fast/takeaway food.
    Its hypocritical in my eyes & is directly relatable (in my opinion anyway) to someone agereeing that Rooney should have the book thrown at him for last week when they sit in football grounds every week & use the same language. If you want a football comparison then go back a few years to when a load fo Everton fans complained Roy Keane had told them to f off after scoring for United at Goodison and used the “it was the family stand as well” to back up their argument as to how outrageous it was. The only problem was that all the papers had printed Keane’s celebration & virtually to a man every adult in the stand was giving either a 1 or 2 fingered salute to Keane & what they appeared to be in the middle of mouthing didn’t look too savoury either

    Back to being a role model, we’ll have to agree to differ on that one. There are plenty of people in the public eye who hold themselves up as role models – footballers aren’t in that group in my eyes & never will be unless of course they directly state it. If their behaviour starts to go against what their sponsors or club want portrayed then they can cancel contracts

    “so if I choose to go to a game I accept it’s part of the experience and the risk my son will experience it. He has heard it all, but knows it’s wrong and knows how he is expected to behave.” – I might be wilfully misreading this statement but to me it kind of negates all of your arguments against what Rooney did. If you know swearing & such like is part of what goes on in & around a football stadium then surely you acknowledge that its part & parcel of playing the game that emotions run high & players will swear – people know its wrong & that’s not how they should behave so where’s the problem??

    I guess though it comes down to somebody deciding who is & isn’t a role model & off their own judgement of that (not the “role model” themselves deciding it) making a further decision that their behaviour should be better than the thousands of other people in that football stadium
    I don’t (& never will) see any reason why Mr X should be expected to behave any better than Mr Y simply because Mr X is famous

    in reply to: Mr Wayne Rooney..and the FA #63112
    Can’t agree with much of that.

    Not only do they get paid for playing they also get endorsements, sponsorships, appear on TV, in magazines, sticker albums, etc. They are role models whether they like it or not.

    No, I don’t swear at football matches. My 13 year old would be shocked and my dad would slap me!

    Finally, and I could be wrong, but I think using foul and abusive language may actually be an offence in law not just against the rules of entry to football grounds.

    I am not saying that youngsters don’t see them as role models but that they are footballers – that’s what they’re paid to do & nothing else.
    If they have endorsements with companies & that company doesn’t like the conduct of that player then their contract is cancelled – that is up to the particular company. Same with the club they play for
    They do not claim to be role models, do not tell children to follow their example or neccessarily think they are a good example to follow. If they do somet like Rooney did on Saturday & a child copies them then it is up to the parent of that child to tell them it is wrong & explain to them why it is.
    If the child says “But Rooney did it on Saturday & nothign happened to him” the parent should tell em that they don’t care what Wayne Rooney did or didn’t do, they won’t do it
    If a parent holds the likes of Wayne Rooney up as an example of how to conduct themselves then they deserve everythign that they get

    The “they’re a role model” argument reminds me of parents attitudes towards school where the school’s are blamed for making their kids fat coz they serve turkey twizzlers for lunch & when the kids go home for tea they’re given pizza, chips, pies & what not
    Likewise when school’s are blamed for kid’s behaviour coz it’s easier to shift the blame than do their own job as a parent

    And on yourself swearing. I acknowledge not everyone does, but plenty do including those around you & I’m guessing that whereas if its gets too much you might say somet to em but that you’ve never reported someone to the stewards/police for it & demand they be ejected & charged

    in reply to: Mr Wayne Rooney..and the FA #63111

    Standish

    As far as I am aware the law about booking a player for removing their shirt after scoring a goal is because it can be deemed provocative. Either to opposition supporters/players or getting supporters of the team who have just scored too excited (ooo er!!!)
    Personally I think its a farcical law although its not one I’ve ever had to implement yet when I’ve been reffing

    Hopefully that clears up that in relation to swearing into a camera as the 2 aren’t really linked

    The problem with the laws as they stand is that using foul & abusive language is technically a red card offence but the FA ask ref’s to use their judgement. You will not find a football game anywhere in Britain where the players don’t use foul and abusive language either at themselves, their team mates or the opposition but we get told to ignore most of it (or have a word if we feel its getting out of hand) unless its a foul mouth tirade directed towards us. Even a “f**kin hell ref” is generally not considered to be somet to pull them up on unless it becomes persistent
    If I was getting assessed & a player scored, swore at somebody in a release of frustration & i sent him off I would get asked afterwards what the hell I was doing.

    At most what Rooney did should be a fine for bringing the game into disrepute (as it was live on TV & he knew there was a very good chance that the millions watchign would see & hear it) but a 2 game ban??? Its ridiculous & as you say its a case of Rooney having become a pantomine villain & if it had been any other player on the pitch that day then it’d have been forgotten about as soon as they apologised

    With regards to supporters such as yourself swearing – I didn’t ask whether anybody did it deliberately but people do it, even the most mild mannered. People who have sat & stood round me over the years at games probably won’t believe me but i don’t deliberately swear – but football is a passionate game & in the heat of the moment it comes out & if I remember I do try & apologise to anyone it might have offended
    You say that you immediately apologise if you swear at a game. That is basically what Rooney did (or someone at the club did on his behalf) – if after swearing & apologising, the police came & tapped you on teh shoulder & arrested you for using foul & abusive language likely to cause a breach of the peace I imagine that you’d be complaining about the injustice of it all & probably rightly so

    in reply to: Standing at the match #63065
    How about them focussing on the exorbitant pricing of football (I know that we are lucky but many are not) that makes football no longer something that parents can weasily take kids to?

    They do. And many other things too

    in reply to: Mr Wayne Rooney..and the FA #63064
    He swore into a camera with a mic on it and you could hear him clear as day !! Kids were watching that and regardless of what they may hear in the street or playground daily, they should not be hearing it from a professional footballer who should be setting an example to the kids of today !! :angry-soapbox:

    This is one argument that always gets my goat.

    Professional footballers, no matter how highly paid they may be, are paid to play football. They are not paid to be any sort of role model to anyone & neither should they be

    I hope everyone getting on their soapbox about Rooney’s outburst at the weekend never swears within a football ground when there are kids, women & others about who might be offended by it. That’s as against the rules of entry to a football ground as Rooney’s outburst was against the laws of association football

    :angry-soapbox:

    in reply to: Time running out #63032

    Standish – I am being deliberately pedantic to a large extent.
    For the last 2 seasons many of those who have criticised posters who have said stuff along the lines of “for gawds sake stick 2 up front & see if we can get more goals” have responded with “playing 2 up front doesn’t guarantee that you will score more goals”

    And they’re right – it doesn’t

    But my original post was prompted by someone stating just this line & then following it up with “if you play 4 in midfield you will get over run”
    Well I’m sorry if playing 2 up front doesn’t guarantee you more goals then you can’t go on to say in the same post to say somet along the lines of Latics have to play 1 more in midfield (or match) the opposition number wise to stop themselves getting over run

    I know exactly what you are saying in terms of “it stands to reason that if we have one more player in midfield than them we are less likely to be over run” coz I understand the theory behind it but it doesn’t stand to reason in a practical sense when there are football teams all over the world at all levels who dominate midfield battles in games despite being lighter on numbers than the opposition

    Who wins the midfield battle depends on far more than numbers – I’ve seen Latics over the last couple of seasons get absolutely battered in the middle of the park by teams in & around us in the table who have played 4-4-2 as opposed to our 4-5-1. They’ve done it in some instances purely down to them having better players but also on occasions having more fight in them and (amongst other reasons) our midfield sitting back way too deep & allowing the opposition on to them instead of harrying them & getting in their faces
    Also admittedly at times Latics midfield has dominated the opposition

    So the reason why i said it doesn’t “stand to reason” is quite simply because time & time again all over the world it doesn’t work just as often as it does work

    As I’ve said I don’t see any particular system as the right one to play I just want to see a system emplyed that gets the best out of the players we have. Evidence suggests that the current system is not doing that although our manager has rarely employed any other tactic to enable us to make any comparison

    in reply to: Time running out #63003
    Of course it stands to reason!

    Five against four, or, four against three gives one team a numerical advantage. If you have an extra man unmarked somewhere across the middle of the pitch, there’s always a pass available. So, the easiest way of counteracting this is to at least match them man for man.

    I’m well aware that it isn’t as simple as that, however, unless you are considerably better than your opponents, and have players who can create space and cover the deficit, if you go into a game outnumbered in midfield you’re at a disadvantage immediately. No, it doesn’t guarantee that you will not be overrun in midfield, but it gives you a fighting chance to stop that happening if you at least match them man for man.

    Yes, I’d agree that a forward line of two causes more problems than a forward line of one, but only if they get the service. They can pull defenders all over the place and create space for the entire match, but if they’re not getting the ball because the midfield are being outplayed, it’s meaningless whether you have one or two strikers up there.

    Standish it doesn’t stand to reason because as you yourself admit just matching or having one more midfielder on the park than the opposition doesn’t guarantee that you will dominate the midfield. You’ve tried to reason it but admitted it doesn’t work
    If that’s all that was required to dominate the midfield then that would be the only tactic managers would employ and as can be seen all over the world midfields with one less player can & do dominate games

    By the way I am not saying what formation Bobby should or shouldn’t play – IMO it should be the best formation to suit the group of players that he has at his disposal. Not rigidly sticking to one formation or another & thereby forcing players into roles for which they are not suited

    in reply to: Standing at the match #62935

    I would think that the “Football Supporters Federation” of the UK would & should focus on issues effecting football fans in this country & this is one that many football supporters feel passionately about – & many don’t

    Why would or should the “Football Supporters Federation” look to focus on other issues effecting the world?

    in reply to: Time running out #62934

    It doesn’t stand to reason at all

    I’ve seen plenty of teams over the years come up against other teams that have different formations which have meant that they are a man down or lightweight in midfield – 4-3-3 formations up against 4-4-2’s & 4-4-2 formations up against 4-5-1’s or other different scenarios.
    It by no means always makes for games in which the team who are a man lighter get dominated in midfield.

    Using your argument it also then stands to reason that forward lines that have 2 players in cause more problems for defences than forward lines with 1 player in.

    It doesn’t work like that coz the game is dependant on too many varuables & as I tried to point out in my original post I don’t think you can slate someone who says stick 2 up front & we’ll score more coz “it doesn’t guarantee you will score more” and then go on to say “but playing with 4 in midfield would mean the midfield would get overrun”

    in reply to: Time running out #62907

    Thought we played quite well today and IMO definately edged the game and probably should have won it. But here lies our problem we don’t score enough goals and I fear although things have improved slightly we don’t have enough games left to survive.

    Here’s a question for anybody if a team is struggling for goals would not playing two up front double your chances of getting a goal??????? Not rocket science IMO.

    No it wouldn’t!! :naughty:

    The system bobby plays is all about possession, winning the midfield battle.
    Once this battle is won you can then feed your wide men and get players supporting the attack.
    Do you not think we created enough chances yesterday against a good champions league outfit?? :clap: Just check the stats.

    Play 2 out and out strikers from the start and you’ll find the likes of Modric, Jenas and co would have run riot and their front 2 would have got the number of chances that would have killed us off.
    Give Defoe 3-4 chances I’ll guarantee he scores at least one.

    Our problem is not the system, its simply the standard of finishing. :angry-soapbox: [/quote]

    If somebody cannot say that playing 2 up front would give us more chance of scoring more goals & winning games then by the same token somebody else (IMO) cannot say that playing 4 in midfield instead of 5 would mean our midfield would get overrun

    in reply to: Adam Bogdan #62702

    From my knowledge Owen Coyle has never stated an actual fee.
    When he first signed on loan Coyle said that it wouldn’t lead to a permanent deal

    In October Coyle said that “The only way they can keep him for good is by paying our club a large transfer fee – if indeed that’s acceptable to us.”

    In December Coyle said that “If a bid comes in we’ll sit down with Ali and his advisors and look at it. We can’t really talk about it until it happens”

    I don’t ever recall him saying that “Al Habsi will cost a team between £3-£5mill” although I am more than prepared to accept I missed it being reported. Its not something I’d expect to hear a manager say either coz the bidding club are obviously going to come in at the lowest price

    Whether Whelan would pay a transfer fee for Al Habsi I don’t know without knowing what that fee would be & to be honest neither do you

    As for Bobby showing no interest in signing him. When we’re fighting relegation, have very little budget to play around with & have the guy contracted with us until the end of the season I’d say that it makes very good business sense not to splash out millions on a transfer fee & committ to 3 or more years of a contract & premier league wages when there’s every chance that next season the budget will be slashed if we go down.

    As for what Kirkland cost Latics, I can’t find any record of a fee being mentioned on line although I’m sure I remember figures of more than £2mill being mentioned when he joined permanently

    in reply to: Adam Bogdan #62691

    Whether Whelan would authorise the signing of Al Habsi for a figure which has been plucked out of thin air of £3-£5mill (which as Arky points out is a cloud cuckoo figure for Bolton’s 3rd choice keeper) or whether Al Habsi would want to stay at Latics could be debated till the cows come home
    BUT
    for those who say Whelan wouldn’t spend that sort of money on a keeper. He already has. On Kirkland. Whilst I realise that was back in the days when he was a little looser with the old purse strings, if this season should have taught Whelan owt compared to last season its that a quality keeper is imperative to surviving in this division

    Then be unsure no more Griff coz some bloke down the pub told me that it was true

    end of debate

    Football history is littered with big money signings that didn’t work out but hey, why not make out it only happens at Wigan?

    Take your point Griff, but I think what makes this particular signing stand out from any other flop I’ve seen in my time at Latics or most flops I can remember down the years by other managers, is that in this particular instance our Director of Football is alleged to have advised Whelan against signing him due to a) not thinking he was suitable for playing up front on his todd & b) not believing he was physcially suited to the British top flight game
    Our manager has then kicked off & to all intents & purposes forced the director of football from the club over the issue, persuaded the chairman that said director of football didn’t know what he was on about & that he did and got the afore mentioned chairman to loosen the club’s very tight purse strings & break the club’s transfer record to bring him in.

    From the outside looking in it looks very much like a manager staking his reputation & footballing judgement on the success of a player and so in that respect filmoss is right that his apparent failure doesn’t look very good for the manager

    in reply to: Wales #62396

    From my point of view, how Ferdinand feels about the decision does not matter one jot to me

    I do however think that the way Capello has handled the situation shows very, very poor man management skills

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